Sorry for the extreme lag in posting...work has been picking up a lot of steam with flu season coming on and end-of-year vacations and Travis has been plugging away at work to try to avoid working when we take our own much needed vaction during Thanksgiving week! And this whole pregnancy thing tends to zap my energy most days, so there's my lame list of excuses!
Harry has been an extreme joy and a huge handfull all at once lately! You never know what you're going to get with him. As the title states, he has very specific opinions about everything, although unpredictable! Eating has been hit or miss again. The only things he seems to eat everytime they are offered is fruit (and probably candy/goldfish/Teddy Grahams if we offered those at every meal, but we don't!). What is funny is that he sometimes won't eat something the way it is given to him, but will eat it if you try a different presentation. For example, he might not eat a sandwich if you cut it up for him, but he will eat it if he can take bites. However, don't get used to that rule because he will change his mind the next day. I'm grateful that for the most part Travis and I are both pretty laid back because his antics really don't bother us all that much. We both realize that it's part of being a kid and he would eat whatever it was in any style of presentation if he was truly hungry enough. I will, however, if it comes to fixing multiple meals will draw the line at that!
His teeth are continuing to come in rapid fire style! He started cutting all 4 molars at once, and yesterday I noticed his top 2 canine teeth are coming in too! Poor guy. He keeps his fist in his mouth a lot of the day so I know they are hurting. It doesn't seem to affect his mood much so I am glad about that. He also seems to enjoy his nightly dose of ibuprofen too! Getting new teeth changes his appearance so much, so I know when he finishes off this mouthful of teeth he will look even more like a little boy instead of a baby!
Harry is also currently going through a stage that for some reason I thought we would avoid---separation anxiety. Majorly! I guess I thought he would be so used to being left with Katrina and Mom that he wouldn't know any better, but I was wrong. Some days are worse than others, like the day I dropped him off at Katrina's and I could hear him screaming and dramatically pound on the door. It gets bad too when I can not only hear him crying, but he also yells "Mommy! Mommy!" It's rough. I don't even want to think about how hard it will be to leave 2 behind. To perhaps remedy the situation in the future, Travis and I are making a real, concerted effort to get some aspects of our finances the way we want them so that I can cut back on work sometime next year. I told him I could stick out working full-time if I had a possible date that I could stop working so much! Having a husband who sees so many people struggle with money as they reach retirement age is good in some ways because I know he won't let that happen to us. It's bad in the respect that, well, he worries about money a lot so the prospect of us having the same lifestyle while making less money is very scary for him!
Little brother seems to be getting along in his nice, warm home. He seems to be a bit more feisty than his big brother. I think I feel him moving a lot more than I did with Harry, and I can already feel him on the outside as well. I think he is mostly hanging out upside-down because almost always feel the kicks down low. After a few great weeks of being nausea/vomiting free, the growing pains are starting to kick in. I'm mostly in maternity clothes now which I'm pretty excited about since I went months without gaining weight. Baby Boy B will be here before we know it!